Know your values handout - FREE PDF

Values are like our internal compass. They shape how we live, how we make decisions, and ultimately, how we parent. They influence everything—from how we respond to our kids in tough moments to the kind of family culture we create.

For example, if one of your top values is family, you’ll naturally prioritise time with them and lean on them in hard times. If ambition is a core value, you might focus more on personal goals while modelling perseverance for your tamariki. There’s no right or wrong—what matters is knowing what’s important to you and making parenting choices that align with that.

How do you figure out your values?

We’ve put together a simple, powerful values exercise to help you get clear on your top five values—because when you’re parenting in line with what truly matters to you, things feel easier.